Everyone longs for that perfect relationship…

Everyone longs for that perfect relationship, “the one”… and sometimes we may even find more than one person we are sure was “it”… However, we miss something so simple yet so significant. Sometimes we just change frequencies. We have heard “find someone to grow with”, but unfortunately we can’t control the growth of another. It is not right or wrong, either way. Everything in life has cycles, even people. Why do we resist this? Some people constantly grow and change, and some don’t. This is our right, our free will. It doesn’t make someone else wrong because they do or don’t change. How much more simple would life be if we experienced each person for what they can offer us in the moment, rather than try to worry about or control tomorrow. For some reason we hate endings, that is epitomizes something bad. If one day at a time turns into forever, you found the right frequency. If not, there are a billion people in the world. I can assure you there is another person out there on your frequency. The challenge comes in accepting your own frequency, being willing to grieve the loss of an energy you shared time with, and owning the frequency you choose to resonate at. This frequency governs your desires, wants and needs. Stop ignoring those and align with them. Happiness ultimately is comfortable being in your frequency, not another’s. And, once you are, you will naturally align with the right person… © Jodi Healy

About Jodi Healy

Mother, Author, World Traveler Philanthropist, and Blogger in the Quest for Truth, Happiness, & Enlightenment... jodihealy.com
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2 Responses to Everyone longs for that perfect relationship…

  1. ikennaokoro says:

    Interesting write up to keep in mind. Thank you

  2. disconcerted72 says:

    That certainly gives one pause to contemplate and think. Interesting and thought provoking post.

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