Are you stuck in an unhealthy pattern?

Patterns are behaviors or reactions that repeat themselves over and over… Most of the time we don’t even realize we are part of or in one. We subconsciously participate in this dance and are consumed by it. We believe we are acting in free will, actually making decisions and having feelings or emotions based on the experience we are in, but in reality it is simply a conditioned response to something before. We react, respond, anticipate, expect, participate, cooperate, follow… These patterns drive our lives, in the most minute detail and we never even question it. Patterns emerge in our relationships, financial situations, failures, careers… We keep repeating the same things over and over, expecting different results.. and never even questioning our part in it, or our function, like a robot doing the same thing we did before.. We may be experiencing a different person, place and time but in the same way we have before, because we never fully realized the core pain or happiness… Some patterns can be pleasant, if you are aware of the reaction you are seeking. But most patterns keep us a cog in a wheel never moving forward. Patterns can be broken but only if the present reality is experienced, consciously, as if it is happening for the first time, reverting to the original emotions of your core… to either release or claim.. © Jodi Healy

About Jodi Healy

Mother, Author, World Traveler Philanthropist, and Blogger in the Quest for Truth, Happiness, & Enlightenment... jodihealy.com
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