Magnetism towards another can often be misunderstood… Our human societal ideals deceive us into the hope of an instant fairy tale love that is bliss forever, coupled with an illusion of never ending romanticism. Codependency is the result of these illusions. The pull and magnetism towards another is not love. It is meant to push us into the soul shock we need to heal or clear what we are suppose to, when we are triggered by or separated from this person. Divine love is not restrictive or exclusive, and often not romantic… True love is bliss but not dependent on another, it can be experienced alone. Magnetism means one of three things: 1. You have a hard lesson to face and learn. 2. You are brought together to teach each other new ways; to live, about yourself, to love or about love. 3. It is meant to be, but you need to face the triggers you cause each other, to purify the soul before you can experience divine love together. Whatever the case may be, you are not crazy. The pull is real, and often like a vortex. Your souls are drawing you together for a purpose. But it is not necessarily because you are meant to be with this person… Face the triggers and issues that arise when separated, and you will follow your path to truth and freedom from our haywire codependent relationships… to a place where you are transformed into love rather than seeking or needing it.
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